Solo Dates
Have you ever just wanted to try a new place or a new activity, but all your friends were busy because life was life-ing? So one day, instead of waiting on anyone, you just went for it and ended up having the best time with yourself. You make memories, take a bunch of pictures, and realize… wow, solo dates are actually kind of magical.
On July 12, 2025, I had one of my favorite solo dates ever. First stop: lunch in Hell’s Kitchen at Mama Mia, a cozy Italian spot. Carbs were necessary, because right after I headed to SassClass for a dance workshop called Chairology with Tony. And let me tell you we danced to Christina Aguilera, with chairs involved, and it was everything I didn’t know I needed. My body, mind, and soul were all in alignment that day.
After class, I wasn’t ready to go home yet. So I wandered through the city, grabbed a protein smoothie from Juice Generation (because yes, balance), and then found myself at Bryant Park. I sat down with my travel journal, wrote about what I was grateful for, and just soaked in that perfect Saturday evening. Eventually, with music in my ears (one headphone in, one out safety first), I let the sunset guide me home. By the time I hit my bed, I was blissfully exhausted.
I love my solo dates in the city. I swear by them. They keep me grounded, recharged, and remind me to enjoy the little things.
So here’s my PSA: take yourself out. Try that restaurant. Sign up for that class. Wander that neighborhood. Solo dates aren’t just fun they boost your confidence, your mental wellbeing, and they push you outside your comfort zone in the best way. They help you discover yourself while still having the time of your life.
Go out there and enjoy your own company. You deserve it.
Sessi. Dancing Corners 